"The husband's consideration is actually making the wife sick."
On the MBC entertainment program 'Oh Eun-young Report - Marriage Hell', a 'fully prepared couple' appeared just a week before giving birth, shocking the studio. Behind the husband's seemingly devoted actions for his wife was a 'control' that suffocated her.
◇ "Even Trimming Nose Hair..." Over-the-Top 'Full Setting' Care
According to the broadcast on the 26th, the husband treated his pregnant wife like a 'baby'. He meticulously removed the white peel of tangerines and fed them to her, and even trimmed her nose hair, which left the cast in shock. He showed great care by preparing breakfast and vitamins for two hours before going to work, but the wife complained that it was a "burdensome obsession." The husband's attitude of forcing an unwanted diet was closer to coercion than consideration.
◇ Oh Eun-young's Sharp Critique: "This is Not Love, But 'Checking' and 'Inspecting'"
The tension at the dining table reached its peak. When the wife lied that she had finished her meal, the husband checked the remaining side dishes and urged her as if disciplining a child. Observing this, Dr. Oh Eun-young named the husband's behavior 'kind control'. Dr. Oh advised, "What the husband gives is not love, but checking and inspecting," and emphasized that "the wife should be recognized as an adult, not an immature being that needs protection."
◇ Outside He is 'Capable Man', Inside He is 'Neglectful Husband'?
A bigger problem was the husband's 'workaholic' tendency. As an employee of a large company, an event host, and a creator, the husband pushed himself to the limit, yet he was absent during the most important moments. He forgot the obstetric check-up dates and did not help prepare the delivery bag, showing indifference to the key events at home, unlike his passion outside. The wife shed tears of disappointment, saying, "The kind husband changed after getting caught up in work."
◇ "Stop Working Immediately"... Oh Eun-young's Harsh Prescription
Dr. Oh Eun-young analyzed that the husband's excessive activities stemmed from 'anxiety about resting'. While pushing himself to the extreme, the wife fell into deep isolation and depression. Dr. Oh issued a firm prescription to "stop the ongoing work immediately," emphasizing that emotional communication with the wife and appropriate distancing are urgent rather than physical care.
